5 lessons that 2024 taught me.
We all have that year—the one that shifts our lives in unexpected ways. For some, it’s the year they bought their first house, made $1 million, got a degree, or had a baby.
I didn’t achieve any of those things this year, but still, 2024 was my best year yet. Not because I hit any major milestones, but because of the lessons I learned—lessons that changed everything:
Saying no doesn’t make me unkind.
I realized that no is a full sentence. Setting boundaries doesn’t mean I lack kindness; it means I value my time and energy. Having the courage to say no despite knowing that it could lead to a misunderstanding was a skill that 2024 taught me.
Life is really not as hard as I thought.
Sometimes, the weight I carried wasn’t life itself but my expectations of it. I’ve learned to live lighter, to embrace the simple joys, and to let go of unnecessary burdens and worries about my future. I'm not implying that you shouldn't be concerned about your future. All I'm saying is, worrying about your future only leads to anxiety, however, preparing for your future brings confidence and enthusiasm. So, enjoy the little things. Enjoy where you are.
I’m not responsible for anyone’s happiness.
It’s not selfish of me to prioritize my own well-being— especially my mental well-being. I’ve stopped carrying emotions that aren’t mine to hold, allowing others to take responsibility for their own journeys.
Investing in myself is the greatest form of self-love.
Learning new skills, exercising, and reading self-help books were the best gifts I gave myself this year. It not only improved my outlook on life but it also improved my relationship with others.
Prayer and journaling are the best antidotes for a fogged mind.
In moments of confusion and overwhelm, I found peace through prayer and clarity through writing. They became my anchors when it felt like my life was a mess. 2024 taught me how to let go of my “prayer templates” and just pray from my heart. My relationship with God has never felt so good.
I may not have bought a house or launched a business this year, but 2024 gave me something far greater—growth, peace, and clarity. And for that, it will always be my best year yet.
What lessons did 2024 teach you? I'd love to know. ❤️
I can relate to every single lesson you shared here. The first one has been the most difficult one yet! Saying no in 2024 has been such a journey, yet I'm proud of how far I've come. Cheers to more "no's" in 2025.
Prioritizing my wellbeing is not selfish. Thank you❤️
2024 has taught me a lot honestly and on your list are a few. My heart has undergone so much transformation. I learnt to love people better and myself, a lot more. My relationship with God gets better each year as well🥹
I became more comfortable in my skin as well. Like you, I didn't do the "big" things but 2024 remains my best year yet and I can't wait for all 2025 holds.